When I was packing, suddenly thought about guys' buying gifts to girls.

Sometimes, when a couple are shopping around the market or jewellery store. Sometimes, girls will keep staring at some items, bracelet for example, and keep saying that "oh, it's so cute, look it's so beautiful...." maybe even for 10 minutes. At that time, some stupid guys will say "ya...yes...hmm...right..." while doing NOTHING. Then the girl will piss off because the guy doesn't understand that she's implying him to buy it as a gift for her. Then the guy suddenly feels like what the hell is going on? why she was so happy just then and now so pissed off in just a second.

That is a typical story. And sometimes, when the guy understands why the girl was acting like that, then he might say "let's go back,i wanna buy it for you.How about that?". Then the girl would be even more angry, because he started to think about buying her the gift because she ASKED!! Usually the girl would piss off more and walk away without talking with him.

 

We all know that guys are stupid, making stupid mistakes to piss off girls.

Actually , the guy made two big mistakes.

First, if he's smart enough, when the girl keeps saying something is beautiful, cute... implying him to buy it for her, he should not ask her, just take out the wallet and buy it and give it to her in front of her.

Second, if he's stupid, he might made the mistake of not got her implying at the first time, when she explains to her, he should NOT ask her something like "Then, let's go back, i'll buy it for you"... That's really stupid thing to do , because what girls want is not the thing you're buying her, but the feeling that you have her in mind and surprising her from time to time. At this situation, this stupid boy, if he still has any smart guts inside, he should just apologize his stupidness "I'm sorry, I didn't get it at that time, I'll try to work it out next time" and just let it go. Then if this guy is really smart and wants his girl to be super happy, he should go back some other time by himself and buy the thing the girl wanted and send it to her in some other occassion. I promise, the girl will feel on top of the world and love you much much more.

 

Sometimes, people say what's wrong with guys asking the girl if she likes something and buy it for her after getting her permission. Well, dude...(guys are hard to teach).

To girls, men other than boy friend will ask " Will you be happy if I buy XXX for you?... Do you like XXX?... You want me to buy XXX?" usually, that man is Dad. Only my father will use this method before buying me something. Because, what girls want from men buying gift is different . For Dad or other uncles, friends..., what girl wants is the thing itself. Say, for my birthday, I want a car, then I talk to my dad I want a mercedes ( notice: this is not sugar-dad :) ). Dad will ask me about the car and buy it, and I'm super happy because I got a Mercedes!!!  For boy friend and lover..., what girl wants is not the thing itself, it is the action that the guy is buying stuff for her, and surprising her. Say, for my birthday, I want a car, and my lover knows I want a mercedes, but he's not able to afford it, but he secretly earns money to buy me a toyota and surprise me at my birthday party, and I'm super happy because it's Him buying the car for me, and he remembers I talked to him about how I wanted a car...

 

Sometimes, girls are very complicated to guys. Sometimes, girls are very simple. Just understand why she's doing that and think of the way to deal with her little mind ~